SHE with Vainglorious Brides

It's the weekend. And as we continue exploring ways to spice things up with our mates, we've invited SHE of Vainglorious Brides to share a way to break away from the mundane and boost the romance in a marriage. Let's see what SHE has to say to both the new and seasoned Mrs. Read on...

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Ultimately, you and your hubby have an awesome relationship. You spend quality time together. You may not have as much time as you would like due to work, the kids, and just plan ole’ life happening but you still manage to have moments alone to bond and connect. Most times you may catch a movie, take a stroll, or even have dinner at one of your favorite restaurants. If you’re really lucky, the kids will abandon the crib and leave you and hubby alone like two teenagers to swing from the chandeliers. You will set the mood with candles, cook his favorite dish, and serve a sweet romantic wine. The perfect soundtrack for the evening is anything Maxwell. Let’s take it a step further; you even have plans for a hot bubble bath for two with rose petals and the good bubble bath (not Palmolive). Does this sound like you and your hubby? Have you planned an evening like this? If your answer is no, this is a great start for you. However, if your answer is yes, it’s time to spice it up a bit! Your goal should be to make your romantic evenings ones that he will never forget. It’s time to stray away from those typical dates that have become so mundane and optimize your time alone together.

First things first, all the steps we take to set the mood is for us. Men don’t care about all of that. The conservativeness of romance is for us; again, men can take or leave any of it. With that being said, here is your challenge for your next romantic evening alone. Start off the way you normally do or the way I described previously. After dinner is served and you guys are winding down, have him move to the sofa or a comfy dinning chair, preferably with no arms. Blind fold him, tell him to relax, kiss him gently on the lips, and tell him it’s time for dessert. Proceed to the sound system, immediately turn Maxwell off, and turn on something more up beat and sexy like Trey Songz.

You want to start off feeding him different fruits and confections, have him guess what they are. Then, apply caramel or fudge to your nipples and have him taste that next. Once he realizes what it is, he will continue to nibble creating a pleasurable experience for you and him! Now, it’s time for you to do the tasting— hmmm. If that’s not your forte, this is the perfect time to perfect it. Remember, he is blindfolded. You can get loose and let your hair down if you are a little shy. You can even add toppings for your own pleasure. A word of advice, they like it nasty, the messier the better! When you are through, tidy him up a bit, turn Maxwell back on, reapply your lipstick, and grab your glass of wine. Tell him to take his own blindfold off, bat your eyes and say “I don’t know what’s gotten in to me, must be this wine!”